Balancing fantasy with reality
Sometimes I catch myself daydreaming about scenarios that are way more exciting than real life, and then I feel disappointed when reality doesn’t match up. I don’t want to let it ruin my actual relationship, but it’s hard not to compare. How do people balance fantasy with reality without feeling let down?
That’s a tricky one, but I’ve been there. What helped me was learning to treat fantasy as just one part of the picture, not the standard everything has to live up to. I also tried out undress app , which gave me a safe space to indulge those daydreams without putting pressure on my partner. Once I started seeing it as complementary instead of competitive with reality, it became easier to enjoy both without disappointment.